2 Samuel 18 Study Notes: The Death of Absalom
David sends his army out under three commanders with orders to spare Absalom, and his forces win the battle in Ephraim’s woods. Absalom is caught in a great oak, and Joab kills him against the king’s command. Runners bring the news to David, who grieves bitterly for his son.
General
What happened to Absalom as he rode his mule through the forest (2 Samuel 18:9)?
Answer: His head caught in an oak’s branches and the mule went on
As Absalom rode his mule beneath a great oak, his head became wedged among its dense boughs. The mule kept going, and he was left dangling (18:9). The man who had stolen the hearts of Israel (15:6) was now left helpless. His downfall fulfilled what the narrator had said: the LORD had determined to bring ruin on Absalom (17:14). Proverbs warns that pride leads to ruin (Proverbs 16:18).
- 2 Samuel 18:9 (BSB)“Now Absalom was riding on his mule when he met the servants of David, and as the mule went under the thick branches of a large oak, Absalom’s head was caught fast in the tree. The mule under him kept going, so that he was suspended in midair.”Absalom is caught in the oak as his mule goes on.
- 2 Samuel 15:6 (BSB)“Absalom did this to all the Israelites who came to the king for justice. In this way he stole the hearts of the men of Israel.”Absalom had stolen the hearts of the men of Israel.
- 2 Samuel 17:14 (BSB)“Then Absalom and all the men of Israel said, “The advice of Hushai the Archite is better than that of Ahithophel.” For the LORD had purposed to thwart the good counsel of Ahithophel in order to bring disaster on Absalom.”The LORD had purposed to bring ruin on Absalom.
- Proverbs 16:18 (BSB)“Pride goes before destruction, and a haughty spirit before a fall.”Pride leads to destruction.
Theological
How did Absalom come to be helpless in Ephraim’s forest (2 Samuel 18:9)?
Answer: His head caught in an oak’s branches and the mule went on
Absalom, riding under a great oak, was caught by the head and left suspended as his mule went on (18:9). The would-be king who had stolen the hearts of Israel (15:6) was rendered helpless, an image of the disaster the LORD had determined against him (17:14) and of the proverb that pride precedes destruction (Proverbs 16:18).
- 2 Samuel 18:9 (BSB)“Now Absalom was riding on his mule when he met the servants of David, and as the mule went under the thick branches of a large oak, Absalom’s head was caught fast in the tree. The mule under him kept going, so that he was suspended in midair.”Absalom is caught in the oak as his mule goes on.
- 2 Samuel 15:6 (BSB)“Absalom did this to all the Israelites who came to the king for justice. In this way he stole the hearts of the men of Israel.”Absalom had stolen the hearts of the men of Israel.
- 2 Samuel 17:14 (BSB)“Then Absalom and all the men of Israel said, “The advice of Hushai the Archite is better than that of Ahithophel.” For the LORD had purposed to thwart the good counsel of Ahithophel in order to bring disaster on Absalom.”The LORD had purposed to bring ruin on Absalom.
- Proverbs 16:18 (BSB)“Pride goes before destruction, and a haughty spirit before a fall.”Pride leads to destruction.
General
When David asked Ahimaaz whether Absalom was safe, how did Ahimaaz answer (2 Samuel 18:29)?
Answer: He said he saw a great commotion but could not tell its cause
David’s first question to Ahimaaz was about his son: was his son safe? Ahimaaz did not answer directly. He said he had seen a great commotion when Joab sent him, but could not say what it meant (18:29). David told him to stand aside and wait (18:30). Joab had already told Ahimaaz that the king’s son was dead (18:20), so his answer avoided the hard news. David’s question showed where his heart was, just as his order to deal gently with Absalom had (18:5).
- 2 Samuel 18:29 (BSB)“The king asked, “Is the young man Absalom all right?” And Ahimaaz replied, “When Joab sent the king’s servant and your servant, I saw a great tumult, but I do not know what it was.””David asks about Absalom and Ahimaaz gives an evasive reply.
- 2 Samuel 18:20 (BSB)“But Joab replied, “You are not the man to take good news today. You may do it another day, but you must not do so today, because the king’s son is dead.””Joab had told Ahimaaz that the king’s son was dead.
- 2 Samuel 18:5 (BSB)“Now the king had commanded Joab, Abishai, and Ittai, “Treat the young man Absalom gently for my sake.” And all the people heard the king’s orders to each of the commanders regarding Absalom.”David had ordered that Absalom be dealt with gently.
Theological
How did Ahimaaz respond to David’s question about Absalom’s welfare (2 Samuel 18:29)?
Answer: He said he saw a great commotion but could not tell its cause
The king’s first concern was Absalom’s welfare, and Ahimaaz evaded it, reporting only a great tumult whose meaning he claimed not to know (18:29), although Joab had told him that the king’s son was dead (18:20). David set him aside to wait (18:30). The exchange underscores the father’s preoccupation already evident in his order to deal gently with the young man (18:5).
- 2 Samuel 18:29 (BSB)“The king asked, “Is the young man Absalom all right?” And Ahimaaz replied, “When Joab sent the king’s servant and your servant, I saw a great tumult, but I do not know what it was.””David asks about Absalom and Ahimaaz gives an evasive reply.
- 2 Samuel 18:20 (BSB)“But Joab replied, “You are not the man to take good news today. You may do it another day, but you must not do so today, because the king’s son is dead.””Joab had told Ahimaaz that the king’s son was dead.
- 2 Samuel 18:5 (BSB)“Now the king had commanded Joab, Abishai, and Ittai, “Treat the young man Absalom gently for my sake.” And all the people heard the king’s orders to each of the commanders regarding Absalom.”David had ordered that Absalom be dealt with gently.
General
When Ahimaaz reached David, to whom did he give the credit for the victory (2 Samuel 18:28)?
Answer: To the LORD, who had handed over David’s enemies
Ahimaaz outran the Cushite, bowed before the king, and blessed the LORD, David’s God, for handing over the rebels who had lifted a hand against the king (18:28). He gave the glory for the victory to God. David himself sang that God was the one who avenged him and rescued him from his enemies (Psalm 18:47-48), and in the psalm from this very flight he confessed that rescue comes from the LORD alone (Psalm 3:8).
- 2 Samuel 18:28 (BSB)“Then Ahimaaz called out to the king, “All is well!” And he bowed facedown before the king. He continued, “Blessed be the LORD your God! He has delivered up the men who raised their hands against my lord the king.””Ahimaaz blesses the LORD for delivering up the rebels.
- Psalm 3:8 (BSB)“Salvation belongs to the LORD; may Your blessing be on Your people. Selah”David confesses that salvation belongs to the LORD.
- Psalm 18:47-48 (BSB)“the God who avenges me and subdues nations beneath me, who delivers me from my enemies. You exalt me above my foes; You rescue me from violent men.”David praises the God who avenges and delivers him.
Theological
To whom did Ahimaaz give the credit for the victory when he reported to David (2 Samuel 18:28)?
Answer: To the LORD, who had handed over David’s enemies
Ahimaaz’s announcement attributed the victory wholly to the LORD, who had delivered up the rebels (18:28). This matches David’s own confession in the psalm of his flight from Absalom that deliverance is the LORD’s alone (Psalm 3:8), and his song of praise to God as the one who avenges him and delivers him from his enemies (Psalm 18:47-48).
- 2 Samuel 18:28 (BSB)“Then Ahimaaz called out to the king, “All is well!” And he bowed facedown before the king. He continued, “Blessed be the LORD your God! He has delivered up the men who raised their hands against my lord the king.””Ahimaaz blesses the LORD for delivering up the rebels.
- Psalm 3:8 (BSB)“Salvation belongs to the LORD; may Your blessing be on Your people. Selah”David confesses that salvation belongs to the LORD.
- Psalm 18:47-48 (BSB)“the God who avenges me and subdues nations beneath me, who delivers me from my enemies. You exalt me above my foes; You rescue me from violent men.”David praises the God who avenges and delivers him.
General
How did the Cushite let David know that Absalom was dead (2 Samuel 18:32)?
Answer: He wished that all the king’s enemies would share Absalom’s fate
The Cushite announced that the LORD had avenged the king of everyone who had risen against him (18:31). When David asked about Absalom, the Cushite answered by wishing that all the king’s enemies, and everyone who rose up to harm him, would end up as Absalom had (18:32). It was a polite way of saying Absalom was dead, and it treated him simply as one of the king’s enemies. Absalom had indeed made himself David’s enemy by rising up to take the throne (15:10), but to David he was still his son.
- 2 Samuel 18:32 (BSB)“The king asked the Cushite, “Is the young man Absalom all right?” And the Cushite replied, “May the enemies of my lord the king and all who rise up against you to harm you be like that young man.””The Cushite answers David’s question about Absalom.
- 2 Samuel 15:10 (BSB)“Then Absalom sent spies throughout the tribes of Israel with this message: “When you hear the sound of the horn, you are to say, ‘Absalom reigns in Hebron!’””Absalom had launched his revolt to reign in David’s place.
- Psalm 3:1 (BSB)“A Psalm of David, when he fled from his son Absalom. O LORD, how my foes have increased! How many rise up against me!”David lamented how many had risen up against him in Absalom’s revolt.
Theological
In what form did the Cushite convey the news of Absalom’s death (2 Samuel 18:32)?
Answer: He wished that all the king’s enemies would share Absalom’s fate
The Cushite delivered the news indirectly, wishing that all the king’s enemies and all who rose against him might be as that young man (18:32), after first announcing the LORD’s vindication of the king (18:31). His words classed Absalom among the rebels, which he truly was (15:10), but they collided with the father’s love that David had shown throughout (18:5).
- 2 Samuel 18:32 (BSB)“The king asked the Cushite, “Is the young man Absalom all right?” And the Cushite replied, “May the enemies of my lord the king and all who rise up against you to harm you be like that young man.””The Cushite answers David’s question about Absalom.
- 2 Samuel 15:10 (BSB)“Then Absalom sent spies throughout the tribes of Israel with this message: “When you hear the sound of the horn, you are to say, ‘Absalom reigns in Hebron!’””Absalom had launched his revolt to reign in David’s place.
- Psalm 3:1 (BSB)“A Psalm of David, when he fled from his son Absalom. O LORD, how my foes have increased! How many rise up against me!”David lamented how many had risen up against him in Absalom’s revolt.
General
How did David react when he learned that Absalom was dead (2 Samuel 18:33)?
Answer: He wept above the gate, wishing he had died in his son’s place
David was deeply shaken. He climbed to the room above the gateway in tears, and as he went he kept crying out his son’s name and saying he wished he could have died in Absalom’s place (18:33). The victory meant nothing to him beside the loss of his son. This grief was part of the sorrow God had told David would come to his house after his sin with Bathsheba: the sword would not depart from it (12:10). Proverbs says a foolish son causes his father sorrow (Proverbs 17:25), and David’s sorrow here is real and deep.
- 2 Samuel 18:33 (BSB)“The king was shaken and went up to the chamber over the gate and wept. And as he walked, he cried out, “O my son Absalom! My son, my son Absalom! If only I had died instead of you, O Absalom, my son, my son!””David weeps and laments for Absalom.
- 2 Samuel 12:10 (BSB)“Now, therefore, the sword will never depart from your house, because you have despised Me and have taken the wife of Uriah the Hittite to be your own.’”Nathan said the sword would not depart from David’s house.
- Proverbs 17:25 (BSB)“A foolish son brings grief to his father and bitterness to her who bore him.”A foolish son brings grief to his father.
Theological
What does the narrator record of David’s response to the news of Absalom’s death (2 Samuel 18:33)?
Answer: He wept above the gate, wishing he had died in his son’s place
Overwhelmed, David withdrew to the room above the gateway in tears, crying out for his son and wishing he had died in Absalom’s place (18:33). His lament reveals a father’s love untouched by Absalom’s treason. It also belongs to the train of sorrows announced by Nathan, that the sword would never depart from David’s house (12:10), and it embodies the grief that a foolish son causes his father (Proverbs 17:25).
- 2 Samuel 18:33 (BSB)“The king was shaken and went up to the chamber over the gate and wept. And as he walked, he cried out, “O my son Absalom! My son, my son Absalom! If only I had died instead of you, O Absalom, my son, my son!””David weeps and laments for Absalom.
- 2 Samuel 12:10 (BSB)“Now, therefore, the sword will never depart from your house, because you have despised Me and have taken the wife of Uriah the Hittite to be your own.’”Nathan said the sword would not depart from David’s house.
- Proverbs 17:25 (BSB)“A foolish son brings grief to his father and bitterness to her who bore him.”A foolish son brings grief to his father.
General
What order did David give his three commanders about Absalom before the battle (2 Samuel 18:5)?
Answer: Deal gently with the young man for David’s sake
David commanded his three commanders to go easy on Absalom for his sake, and every soldier heard the order (18:5). Even though Absalom was trying to take his throne and his life, David still loved his son. David had longed for Absalom before (13:39) and had kissed him when they were reconciled (14:33). His love for his son was real, and it shaped everything that follows in this chapter and the next.
- 2 Samuel 18:5 (BSB)“Now the king had commanded Joab, Abishai, and Ittai, “Treat the young man Absalom gently for my sake.” And all the people heard the king’s orders to each of the commanders regarding Absalom.”David orders his commanders to deal gently with Absalom.
- 2 Samuel 13:39 (BSB)“And King David longed to go to Absalom, for he had been consoled over Amnon’s death.”David had longed to go to Absalom after Amnon’s death.
- 2 Samuel 14:33 (BSB)“So Joab went and told the king, and David summoned Absalom, who came to him and bowed facedown before him. Then the king kissed Absalom.”David had kissed Absalom when he was received back.
Theological
What instruction concerning Absalom did David give his three commanders (2 Samuel 18:5)?
Answer: Deal gently with the young man for David’s sake
David’s charge to his three commanders to deal gently with Absalom for his sake was given publicly, so that the whole army heard it (18:5). It reveals a father’s love persisting toward a son in open rebellion, the same longing that had marked David earlier (13:39; 14:33). The public nature of the order makes Joab’s later action a deliberate defiance of the king (18:12-14).
- 2 Samuel 18:5 (BSB)“Now the king had commanded Joab, Abishai, and Ittai, “Treat the young man Absalom gently for my sake.” And all the people heard the king’s orders to each of the commanders regarding Absalom.”David orders his commanders to deal gently with Absalom.
- 2 Samuel 13:39 (BSB)“And King David longed to go to Absalom, for he had been consoled over Amnon’s death.”David had longed to go to Absalom after Amnon’s death.
- 2 Samuel 14:33 (BSB)“So Joab went and told the king, and David summoned Absalom, who came to him and bowed facedown before him. Then the king kissed Absalom.”David had kissed Absalom when he was received back.
General
True or False: The narrator says that in the battle in Ephraim’s forest, the forest claimed more lives than the sword did.
Answer: True
This is true. David’s servants defeated the army of Israel that followed Absalom, with a great loss of life, and the fighting spread across the whole region; the narrator says the forest itself took more lives that day than the sword (18:6-8). The battle was decided as the LORD had planned when He overturned Ahithophel’s counsel to bring ruin on Absalom (17:14). Proverbs says a horse may be prepared for battle, but the victory comes from the LORD (Proverbs 21:31).
- 2 Samuel 18:8 (BSB)“The battle spread over the whole countryside, and that day the forest devoured more people than the sword.”The battle spreads and the forest takes more lives than the sword.
- 2 Samuel 17:14 (BSB)“Then Absalom and all the men of Israel said, “The advice of Hushai the Archite is better than that of Ahithophel.” For the LORD had purposed to thwart the good counsel of Ahithophel in order to bring disaster on Absalom.”The LORD had purposed to bring ruin on Absalom.
- Proverbs 21:31 (BSB)“A horse is prepared for the day of battle, but victory is of the LORD.”Victory in battle belongs to the LORD.
Theological
True or False: According to 2 Samuel 18:8, more men died by the forest than by the sword in the battle of Ephraim’s forest.
Answer: True
This is true. The battle in Ephraim’s forest ranged across the whole region, and the narrator observes that the woods consumed more men than the sword did (18:6-8). The rout of Absalom’s forces was the outworking of the LORD’s purpose to bring ruin on Absalom (17:14), confirming that victory comes from the LORD, not from human preparation (Proverbs 21:31).
- 2 Samuel 18:8 (BSB)“The battle spread over the whole countryside, and that day the forest devoured more people than the sword.”The battle spreads and the forest takes more lives than the sword.
- 2 Samuel 17:14 (BSB)“Then Absalom and all the men of Israel said, “The advice of Hushai the Archite is better than that of Ahithophel.” For the LORD had purposed to thwart the good counsel of Ahithophel in order to bring disaster on Absalom.”The LORD had purposed to bring ruin on Absalom.
- Proverbs 21:31 (BSB)“A horse is prepared for the day of battle, but victory is of the LORD.”Victory in battle belongs to the LORD.
General
Why did Joab at first refuse to let Ahimaaz carry the news to David (2 Samuel 18:19-20)?
Answer: The king’s son was dead, so the news was not good
Ahimaaz, Zadok’s son, wanted to run and tell David that the LORD had avenged him on his enemies (18:19). Joab told him not to carry the news that day, since David’s son had died (18:20), and he sent a Cushite instead (18:21). Earlier, a messenger who brought David news of a death had fared badly: David had executed the man who reported Saul’s death thinking it was good news (4:10).
- 2 Samuel 18:20 (BSB)“But Joab replied, “You are not the man to take good news today. You may do it another day, but you must not do so today, because the king’s son is dead.””Joab tells Ahimaaz he must not carry the news because the king’s son is dead.
- 2 Samuel 4:10 (BSB)“when someone told me, ‘Look, Saul is dead,’ and thought he was a bearer of good news, I seized him and put him to death at Ziklag. That was his reward for his news!”David had executed the man who reported Saul’s death as good news.
- 2 Samuel 1:15 (BSB)“Then David summoned one of the young men and said, “Go, execute him!” So the young man struck him down, and he died.”David ordered the Amalekite messenger to be executed.
Theological
What reason did Joab give for not sending Ahimaaz with the report (2 Samuel 18:19-20)?
Answer: The king’s son was dead, so the news was not good
Joab refused Ahimaaz the role of messenger because, with the king’s son dead, the news could not be good news to David (18:19-20), and he dispatched a Cushite instead (18:21). Earlier David had put to death the man who brought word of Saul’s death as if it were good news (4:10; 1:15).
- 2 Samuel 18:20 (BSB)“But Joab replied, “You are not the man to take good news today. You may do it another day, but you must not do so today, because the king’s son is dead.””Joab tells Ahimaaz he must not carry the news because the king’s son is dead.
- 2 Samuel 4:10 (BSB)“when someone told me, ‘Look, Saul is dead,’ and thought he was a bearer of good news, I seized him and put him to death at Ziklag. That was his reward for his news!”David had executed the man who reported Saul’s death as good news.
- 2 Samuel 1:15 (BSB)“Then David summoned one of the young men and said, “Go, execute him!” So the young man struck him down, and he died.”David ordered the Amalekite messenger to be executed.
General
Who killed Absalom, in spite of David’s order (2 Samuel 18:14-15)?
Answer: Joab, followed by his young armor-bearers
Joab refused to wait. He struck Absalom with spears while he hung in the tree, and ten of Joab’s young armor-bearers closed in and finished him (18:14-15). Joab did this in direct defiance of David’s order to deal gently with the young man (18:5). Then he blew the horn and stopped the fighting (18:16). Absalom’s death was part of the bitter consequence that Nathan had announced: the sword would not depart from David’s house (12:10). God’s purpose was carried out (17:14), but Joab still acted against his king’s clear command.
- 2 Samuel 18:5 (BSB)“Now the king had commanded Joab, Abishai, and Ittai, “Treat the young man Absalom gently for my sake.” And all the people heard the king’s orders to each of the commanders regarding Absalom.”David had publicly ordered his commanders to deal gently with Absalom.
- 2 Samuel 12:10 (BSB)“Now, therefore, the sword will never depart from your house, because you have despised Me and have taken the wife of Uriah the Hittite to be your own.’”Nathan announced that the sword would not depart from David’s house.
- 2 Samuel 17:14 (BSB)“Then Absalom and all the men of Israel said, “The advice of Hushai the Archite is better than that of Ahithophel.” For the LORD had purposed to thwart the good counsel of Ahithophel in order to bring disaster on Absalom.”The LORD had purposed to bring ruin on Absalom.
Theological
Who was responsible for Absalom’s death, contrary to the king’s command (2 Samuel 18:14-15)?
Answer: Joab, followed by his young armor-bearers
Joab took matters into his own hands, striking Absalom while he hung in the oak, after which his ten armor-bearers killed him (18:14-15). The act openly defied David’s command (18:5). Yet it also fulfilled the LORD’s word that the sword would not depart from David’s house (12:10) and the LORD’s purpose to bring ruin on Absalom (17:14). God’s sovereign purpose and Joab’s accountable defiance stand together, without the one excusing the other.
- 2 Samuel 18:5 (BSB)“Now the king had commanded Joab, Abishai, and Ittai, “Treat the young man Absalom gently for my sake.” And all the people heard the king’s orders to each of the commanders regarding Absalom.”David had publicly ordered his commanders to deal gently with Absalom.
- 2 Samuel 12:10 (BSB)“Now, therefore, the sword will never depart from your house, because you have despised Me and have taken the wife of Uriah the Hittite to be your own.’”Nathan announced that the sword would not depart from David’s house.
- 2 Samuel 17:14 (BSB)“Then Absalom and all the men of Israel said, “The advice of Hushai the Archite is better than that of Ahithophel.” For the LORD had purposed to thwart the good counsel of Ahithophel in order to bring disaster on Absalom.”The LORD had purposed to bring ruin on Absalom.
General
Why did David’s troops insist that he not go out to the battle with them (2 Samuel 18:3)?
Answer: His one life equaled ten thousand of theirs
David organized his army under three commanders (Joab, his brother Abishai, and Ittai) and said he would march out with them (18:1-2). The people refused. If they had to run, or if even half of them fell, the enemy would not care; but David was worth as much as ten thousand of them, so he should help them from the city (18:3). They understood what Ahithophel had also seen: the whole revolt was aimed at David’s own life (17:2). Another battle recorded later in the book ends with David’s men swearing that he would no longer join them in battle, so that Israel’s lamp would not go out (21:17). David agreed and stood by the city gate as the troops went out (18:4).
- 2 Samuel 18:3 (BSB)“But the people pleaded, “You must not go out! For if we have to flee, they will not care about us. Even if half of us die, they will not care. But you are worth ten thousand of us. It is better now if you support us from the city.””The people urge David to stay in the city because he is worth ten thousand of them.
- 2 Samuel 17:2 (BSB)“I will attack him while he is weak and weary; I will throw him into a panic, and all the people with him will flee; I will strike down only the king”Ahithophel’s plan aimed at killing David alone.
- 2 Samuel 21:17 (BSB)“But Abishai son of Zeruiah came to his aid, struck the Philistine, and killed him. Then David’s men swore to him, “You must never again go out with us to battle, so that the lamp of Israel may not be extinguished.””David’s men later forbid him to go to battle so the lamp of Israel is not put out.
Theological
What reason did the troops give for keeping David out of the fighting (2 Samuel 18:3)?
Answer: His one life equaled ten thousand of theirs
The people’s argument (18:3) recognized that the conflict turned on David’s life alone: the enemy would care nothing for the fall of the troops, but the king was worth as much as ten thousand of them. Ahithophel’s plan had been built on the same insight, to strike only the king (17:2). Another episode in the book records David’s men swearing that he would no longer join them in battle, lest Israel’s lamp be put out (21:17). David yielded and remained at the gate (18:4).
- 2 Samuel 18:3 (BSB)“But the people pleaded, “You must not go out! For if we have to flee, they will not care about us. Even if half of us die, they will not care. But you are worth ten thousand of us. It is better now if you support us from the city.””The people urge David to stay in the city because he is worth ten thousand of them.
- 2 Samuel 17:2 (BSB)“I will attack him while he is weak and weary; I will throw him into a panic, and all the people with him will flee; I will strike down only the king”Ahithophel’s plan aimed at killing David alone.
- 2 Samuel 21:17 (BSB)“But Abishai son of Zeruiah came to his aid, struck the Philistine, and killed him. Then David’s men swore to him, “You must never again go out with us to battle, so that the lamp of Israel may not be extinguished.””David’s men later forbid him to go to battle so the lamp of Israel is not put out.
General
How did Absalom’s burial contrast with the monument he had erected for himself (2 Samuel 18:17-18)?
Answer: He was cast into a forest pit under a heap of stones, not by his pillar
Absalom’s body was flung into a great hole in the woods and covered with a great pile of stones (18:17). Yet during his life he had raised a stone pillar in the valley called the King’s Valley and named it after himself, because he said he had no son to keep his name remembered (18:18). The man who wanted a lasting monument ended in a forest pit under a heap of rocks, much like Achan long before (Joshua 7:26). Proverbs says the wicked leave a name that decays (Proverbs 10:7).
- 2 Samuel 18:17-18 (BSB)“They took Absalom, cast him into a large pit in the forest, and piled a huge mound of stones over him. Meanwhile, all the Israelites fled, each to his home. During his lifetime, Absalom had set up for himself a pillar in the King’s Valley, for he had said, “I have no son to preserve the memory of my name.” So he gave the pillar his name, and to this day it is called Absalom’s Monument.”Absalom is buried in a pit, while his self-made pillar stands elsewhere.
- Joshua 7:26 (BSB)“And they heaped over Achan a large pile of rocks that remains to this day. So the LORD turned from His burning anger. Therefore that place is called the Valley of Achor to this day.”A heap of stones was likewise raised over Achan.
- Proverbs 10:7 (BSB)“The memory of the righteous is a blessing, but the name of the wicked will rot.”The name of the wicked will rot.
Theological
What contrast does the narrator draw between Absalom’s burial and his self-made memorial (2 Samuel 18:17-18)?
Answer: He was cast into a forest pit under a heap of stones, not by his pillar
The narrator sets two memorials side by side: a heap of stones over Absalom in a forest pit (18:17), and the pillar he had erected to his own name, because he said he had no son to carry it on (18:18). The stone heap recalls the burial of Achan (Joshua 7:26), and the whole contrast illustrates the proverb that a wicked man’s name decays (Proverbs 10:7).
- 2 Samuel 18:17-18 (BSB)“They took Absalom, cast him into a large pit in the forest, and piled a huge mound of stones over him. Meanwhile, all the Israelites fled, each to his home. During his lifetime, Absalom had set up for himself a pillar in the King’s Valley, for he had said, “I have no son to preserve the memory of my name.” So he gave the pillar his name, and to this day it is called Absalom’s Monument.”Absalom is buried in a pit, while his self-made pillar stands elsewhere.
- Joshua 7:26 (BSB)“And they heaped over Achan a large pile of rocks that remains to this day. So the LORD turned from His burning anger. Therefore that place is called the Valley of Achor to this day.”A heap of stones was likewise raised over Achan.
- Proverbs 10:7 (BSB)“The memory of the righteous is a blessing, but the name of the wicked will rot.”The name of the wicked will rot.
General
Why did the soldier who found Absalom refuse to kill him, even for a large reward (2 Samuel 18:12-13)?
Answer: The king had ordered Absalom protected, and Joab would not shield him
Joab scolded the man for not killing Absalom and said he would have paid him a silver reward plus a soldier’s belt (18:10-11). The man answered that even for a thousand shekels he would not touch the king’s son, because everyone had heard David command the commanders to protect Absalom. He added that the king finds out everything, and if he had done it, Joab himself would have left him to face the consequences (18:12-13). The soldier honored the king’s word, which Ecclesiastes urges (Ecclesiastes 8:2), and his remark that nothing escapes the king echoes the words of the woman of Tekoa, who had told David that he knew all that went on in the land (14:20).
- 2 Samuel 18:12-13 (BSB)“The man replied, “Even if a thousand shekels of silver were weighed out into my hands, I would not raise my hand against the son of the king. For we heard the king command you and Abishai and Ittai, ‘Protect the young man Absalom for my sake.’ If I had jeopardized my own life—and nothing is hidden from the king—you would have abandoned me.””The soldier explains why he would not strike Absalom.
- Ecclesiastes 8:2 (BSB)“Keep the king’s command, I say, because of your oath before God.”Ecclesiastes urges keeping the king’s command.
- 2 Samuel 14:20 (BSB)“Joab your servant has done this to bring about this change of affairs, but my lord has wisdom like the wisdom of the angel of God, to know everything that happens in the land.””The wise woman of Tekoa had told David that he knew everything that happened in the land.
Theological
What reasons did the soldier give Joab for not striking Absalom (2 Samuel 18:12-13)?
Answer: The king had ordered Absalom protected, and Joab would not shield him
The soldier’s reply to Joab (18:12-13) rested on two grounds: the king’s explicit, publicly heard command to protect Absalom (18:5), and the certainty that the deed would reach the king, at which point Joab would disown him. His regard for the king’s command matches the wisdom of Ecclesiastes 8:2, and his certainty of discovery echoes the Tekoan woman’s praise of David as one who knew all that happened in the land (14:20). His refusal exposes Joab’s own choice in the next verses as deliberate defiance.
- 2 Samuel 18:12-13 (BSB)“The man replied, “Even if a thousand shekels of silver were weighed out into my hands, I would not raise my hand against the son of the king. For we heard the king command you and Abishai and Ittai, ‘Protect the young man Absalom for my sake.’ If I had jeopardized my own life—and nothing is hidden from the king—you would have abandoned me.””The soldier explains why he would not strike Absalom.
- Ecclesiastes 8:2 (BSB)“Keep the king’s command, I say, because of your oath before God.”Ecclesiastes urges keeping the king’s command.
- 2 Samuel 14:20 (BSB)“Joab your servant has done this to bring about this change of affairs, but my lord has wisdom like the wisdom of the angel of God, to know everything that happens in the land.””The wise woman of Tekoa had told David that he knew everything that happened in the land.
